Today has been a VERY challenging day for me. I am starting to feel VERY overwhelmed with ALL the things going on in my life. I really thought when I left my job, I would have WAY more time on my hands, but I was WRONG WRONG WRONG!!! It seems that I am busier than when I was working my full time job. I guess it is a good thing to pass the time by fast though. I am trying to have some me time by going to boxing class. Let me tell you, it is definitely a good way to take out pent up frustration for sure. I kind of look forward to my classes and find that I don't have as good of days when I don't go to a class. I want to work my way to a KILLER body!! I think it is going to do the trick! Well, anyways, back to my horrible day.....
It all started when the dogs decided they needed to go out at 1am this morning. I KNEW it was going to be a bad day from that moment on! I figured I better get up with them so the Husband could sleep since I don't have to go to work anymore. So, not getting enough sleep and thinking about all the things I need to get done was just too much to handle today. I THINK we just might have the contract for the Surrogacy ready to sign. MIRACLE!! Who knew a contract could be so full of literal nonsense. :-) It really amazes me that so much stuff has to be put into a contract because of people that aren't honest. I guess I just can't understand why anyone would take advantage of someone who is helping two people out with the miracle of a child. I don't think I can ever wrap my brain around horrible advantage takers. Anyways, 29 pages later, we have all the legalities set for us and the Person that will carry our sweet little Baby. It feels like it has only take 100 years to get this thing going and I am VERY thankful it is completed for the most part. We just need the signatures of all Parties, but first the Surrogate needs to get checked out my the Reproductive Endocrinologist.
Well, that is another story in itself since she actually did that yesterday only to be told to come back when she got her cycle. UUUUUGGGHHHHH!!!! Such a waste of her time. Why didn't they just tell her that from the beginning when she asked them if she needed to be??? HELLO PEOPLE!!!!!! So, we will just wait until that day and go from there. Let the waiting begin.
Onto the other stressful part of my life is the need to find a lot to build our house ASAP!! I have been dealing with a Builder on a lot that he has in our desired Neighborhood, but the back and forth with him is RIDICULOUS!! He of course tells us in the beginning he will sale us the lot I want only to later tell us he won't unless HE gets to build the house. So, we are negotiating his ASTONOMICAL fee to just over see the project. I just keep trying to get him to understand the urgency in the situation, but I don't think he gets it. In the mean time, I will just keep editing the floor plan for the house which is a nightmare in itself.
I guess that is all for now. I think it is time for wine!
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